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Bye Bye Car

A few days before I went on my epic trip to South America my car got hit. I was driving through an intersection (yes, the light was green), and this complete idiot came at me from the left and ran right into my back passenger seat door. I could see him coming. I tried to swerve out of his way. I was sure he would stop. He had to have seen me. I was right in front of him. But, alas, he ran right into me. I got out of my car and walked over to where he had stopped. He was looking at his car puzzled. His front left bumper was hanging off. I said – What happened? And he said – ” I think I ran into somebody”. (Really?)

I said – ” yes, You ran into me!” Oh, he said. Then he said he was lost and was looking for the local Catholic Charity homeless shelter and did I know where it was. (Really??) I said it was nearby. “Do you have insurance?” I said. I wasn’t feeling hopeful but I had to ask.

Luckily the guy did have insurance. Unfortunately the damage was too great and the insurance company totaled my car. This upset me because although my car was 10 years old, it had low mileage and there was nothing wrong with it. The engine was fine. I thought about keeping it anyway. But after getting a couple of bids, it turned out it was too expensive to fund the repair myself.

They picked up my car yesterday. It was a sad day. I had a wake. By myself (and a little vodka). I really liked that car.

Having to come back from a long trip and immediately deal with all of this retarded my trip recovery. I usually need about a week to get back into the swing of things but this time it is taking longer. I also had an issue with my furnace just before I left and had to deal with that right away when I got back. Luckily it turned out to be a minor issue.

So now almost two weeks later, I have done most of my laundry, dealt with my car, dealt with my furnace, done some laundry, caught up on high school reunion plans, unpacked, and started planning my next trip in September. I guess I’ve done a lot. I’m almost back in step with reality.

Whether I like it or not.

Trip Roundup – I went to Easter Island and Patagonia with an organization called Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT). It was my first time using them. I’m not big on using organized tours but there are places I want to go to and are difficult to organize on my own. This was one of those places. I wanted to cover a lot of Patagonia and I didn’t want to go by boat so this was one of the few tours I found that offered what I was looking for. The Easter Island part was a pre-trip add on that I figured I couldn’t pass up and I’m glad I went for it. It was definitely worth it. A fabulous experience. The group was small, only eight people.

From there we went to Buenos Aires to meet up with the rest of the group and start the main tour. We were 16 to begin with but one guy got sick and left after about five days. So then we were 15. We had local guides at every stop and most of them were very good at providing interesting relevant information. One or two were a bit tedious. This tour group is big on having that “local experience”. I’m pretty cynical and have mixed feelings about such things since they are obviously staged and paid for so not very spontaneous. I have always enjoyed the magical moments that happen when you turn up in a village and somebody invites you in. But that is not so easy with 15 people in tow.

We ate at a family ranch, we dined with a family in their home, and we all helped make a local dish at a small farm. They were all things I could have lived without but all the people are nice and some were interesting. The other thing they like to do on these tours is have lectures on “controversial subjects”. They weren’t really controversial but I think they were educational and good for people to know about. We heard from a man whose mother was one of the “disappeared” in Argentina, and from a woman of German descent who talked about Nazis hiding in Chile and Argentina. The most interesting lecture for me was the one about the Mapuche Indians of Northern Patagonia. Apparently the Spaniards were never able to conquer them.

I really enjoyed the long bus rides through the Patagonian emptiness. The occasional encounters with rhea and guanaco. And of course the beauty of the landscape. That is why I went. All the other stuff like dealing with personalities, weird encounters, annoying guides, and too many airplane rides, didn’t matter.

Would I go with this tour group again? It is funny because most of the people on the trip had been on tours with this group 5 to 20 times. They all seemed to really love it. I thought they were well organized and the Trip Leader was fantastic. Overall I would say it was a good company. I probably wouldn’t go again with them unless they offered a particular trip I was interested in, like this one. I’m not a traveler just to travel. I travel to see particular things I am interested in. So I wouldn’t randomly choose this company. But you could.

Car Nightmares

I was driving home last night around 7 pm. Of course it was already pitch dark. I was in the left lane of a one way street about two blocks from my apartment. I was at a stoplight. The light turned green and I moved forward. The next thing I knew the car on my right was turning left in front of me. It was one of those things where your brain can’t process it fast enough. I tried to turn left with it and I tried to stop but it drug me along. It was like they didn’t realize they were dragging me along because they kept going. It seemed like an age until they stopped. We weren’t going fast. Nobody was injured but my front right end is dented and scratched. And now I have the huge headache of dealing with it all, not to mention the money I will probably have to dole out. Ugh. 

The only other time I was in anything like an accident was the time I backed out of a parking space into a car I had not seen. Of course it turned out to be a little Porsche. They had a lot of damage but I had none. 

That was the highlight of my week…. not… Oh, yeah, plus I found out my car is “seeping” oil. Once they get to certain age, they turn on you.

In other news, I’m almost done reading the first book of the Raj Quartet about the fall of British rule in India. Historically speaking it is an interesting book. But very long. It rehashes the same story from many different perspectives in order to give the reader a full picture of the times. I’m not sure I want to dive into book two. Maybe later.

I’m watching Game of Thrones. Not sure what to say about that. I am addicted to it and can’t turn away but I don’t really like any of the characters. Who knew there could be so many sadists. As soon as I start rooting for somebody they get killed. There is one interesting thing about it, tho. The strongest characters all seem to be women. Not really all that surprising. But the really funny thing is the author of the book, of this book, all about killing and torture, was a conscientious objector during the Viet Nam war. He apparently said the Grateful Dead’s music may have influenced his work and that Trump is like a grown up King Joffrey (who was universally hated). Anyway, fantasy isn’t real, right?

I have been going to this Greek restaurant at Lake and Lyndale in Minneapolis ever since the 1980’s. Back then it was small and crowded. By the 2000 teens it had expanded, added a patio, and the food was bad. After about three years of avoiding it, we went back there last night (before the accident). The food was GOOD. I had a very delicate and tasty spanakopita for an appetizer and then some nice chicken kebob with rice and warm pita. Couldn’t have been better.

I’m going to paint my kitchen cupboards this week. Wish me luck.

Birthday Swag Bag – Blog Hop

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I was asked to participate in this “blog hop” by Angela, at Amsterdam Oriole. Angela is an Englishwoman married to a Dutchman living in Amsterdam. She writes about events in and around Amsterdam and everything Dutch. She is a prolific writer of flash fiction and short stories.  Be sure to visit her swag bag!

SWAG has several definitions.  According to the Oxford American dictionary SWAG can mean any of the following. I am assuming the relevant one is highlighted in red.

My friend tells me it really just stands for Stuff We All Get.

  • A curtain or piece of fabric fastened so as to hang in a drooping curve
  • A carved or painted representation of a swag of flowers, foliage, or fruit: fine plaster swags
  • Money or goods taken by a thief or burglar
  • Products given away free, typically for promotional purposes
  • Marijuana, typically of a low grade

My mission is to fill a virtual goodie bag with my birthday wish list and must include a book, beauty product, snack food, music, and ‘my choice’. My birthday is next month, so listen up!

Book

Having recently returned from Lake Como, my current dream is to live there and wake up to that view morning after morning. I often troll expat/memoir books looking for something to read and happened to come across this. She sounds like an interesting person.

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Going Solo on Lake Como by Ciara O’Toole

“Sometimes flying by the seat of your pants is the best thing you can do …

When Ciara O’Toole and her husband move to Lake Como, Italy, they make plans – to run their own businesses, to learn the language and to immerse themselves in the Italian way of life.

But just a few months into the adventure Ciara’s marriage ends and she finds herself alone in a country where she doesn’t speak the language. She is faced with a choice: return to Ireland or stay in Italy and make her new life work.”

 

New favorite snack – White Cheddar popcorn

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Back in the 1980’s I went to visit my boyfriend who was doing a summer internship at the Boston Globe. We took a road trip up to Maine. On that trip he turned me on to something I had never seen before – Smartfood. Cheese covered popcorn. I was immediately addicted. Not only was it delicious but the packaging was always entertaining. It would say things like, “We don’t drown our kernels in preservatives. That wouldn’t be fair. They can’t swim.” They told silly stories about the product’s origins and would claim things like “more than twelve billion kernals popped”, mocking McDonald’s.

Then they sold out to Frito Lay and I thought, ugh, that changes things. But even though the packaging got boring, the taste was still good. Now they have a “lighter” version that isn’t quite as cheesy or salty but still states good.

Beauty product

I love nail polish and always have way too many of it. It is fun finding new colors and textures. This one caught my eye.

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Arabella PixieDust by Zoya

 

Music

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Blondie is one of my all time favorites. Debbie Harry is always so cool. They just released their 40th anniversary double CD called ‘Blondie 4(0) Ever’. It includes their old hits, new material, and a dvd of one of their live performances.

 

 

My Choice – Just for fun!

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BMW Z4

A mere $57,000

Need I say more?

 

Next week please join our continuing blog hop over to see Jennifer at the ever creative and amusing Expat Lingo site. She describes herself as a serial expat and is in the process of moving from Hong Kong to the Netherlands.